But I do not want you to think that once it does pass that everything will automatically be okay.If you do not change the underlying dynamics of your marriage, this and other problems will keep cropping up again and again.Fortunately, you can change the dynamics without his involvement.
Instead of getting swallowed up by the magnitude of his betrayal, let’s make this My ONLY desire is to help you get your marriage back on track, and we are very good at that.We have helped countless women do so; ones who were told it was impossible by others.It is not easy to hear that your husband would not have strayed if your marriage was better.But if you pretend things at home were fine until he strayed you are fooling yourself. If they were, and he thought so too, he would cherish you and never do anything to hurt you.
His straying is a wake up call, or a death knell; that is up to you.Do nothing positive and proactive and your marriage will keep getting worse; guaranteed.But if you take positive action you will not only save your marriage, but you will be able to have a great marriage; I promise you that, too. If you think about what I write here, and I mean deeply, your eyes will open.